Sunday, July 15, 2007


Read the top bold print....then scroll to the bottom bold print and after read the better understand my point...

My girlfriend just told me she's going clubbing in new york till morning.

What is love? Love is paints your world? Let's get brutal...Preception, expectation and dissapointments. we first perceive what a person is when we are first attracted to her.Then we have expectations. Lastly, we have dissapointment.Technically the last isn't love but falling out of love...but as it is a process...lets just put it into the context of love.

I was planning a trip to the states to meet my girlfriend zhiling. It's in two weeks.But we've broken up. It ended with...Go club...just don't call me your boyfriend anymore. She still had the nerves to calmly say...I'll talk to you about it after...well dear...surprise...this time there is no after. Whatabout my planned trip to the USA to see her? Well, love is never convenient.And I hope this proves the severity of the matter.

I am not allowing my girlfriend from going clubbing.Doesn't that make me an untrusting controlling boyfriend? Well before you get the wrong preception...know girlfriend doesn't allow me to sleep in the same bed as she after we have dated for like more than a year...doesn't allow me to say bad words...preaches Godliness all the time... and now when I say she can't go to a club...I am wrong? Can't sleep (just sleep) and yet can club? Hypocrite!!!! More preceptions....she stands less than five feet and weigh only a mere 40 or so kilos...easily taken down or over...I worry for her...her size and frame....I am not there and well to me she's really attractive and so I worry...not that I dun trust her but whatabout other guys? I don't want to sit and worry for her and if she wants to club...well have your perception changed?

Expectation...My girlfriend, she expects something from me so I expect something from my girlfriend.She expects me to have neat cut away with my lion's mane...she expect me to be curteous n never say a bad word...she'll merajuk if i even stutter a FU*K. Well dear....*UCK F*CK FU*K! She expects me never to act again as she doesn't wanna envy an actress being in the shoes of my onscreen girlfriend...she expects so much...yet I just ask...dear...please don't go clubbing...without reasoning...she says don't control me...and she even dare add...I am pissed now because you ask me not to concience may not allow me to enjoy do you EXPECT me to stay? Expectations...everyone has expectations...whether they are met...that's a different story.But one thing is clear, if you expect something of someone be ready to expect that he expects something of you. My girlfriend expects me to be the good boy....and she can play devil may-be...hahahaha

YOU BLEW IT, zhiling exclaimed as i put a picture of myself and another girl up as she was arguing with me on msn...well maybe I wanted to BLEW IT. Look...if a photo of me and another girl can be perceive as bout you going clubbing when I specifically told you not too? A picture carry such weigh so what you expect of an action? Or you perceieve that everything you say can issit? and Everything I say I can expect to carry no weight?

Dissapointment...Damn am I angry. I am not crying...I am not sad...happy even...perhaps now I can get a girl who doesn't dissapoint me.How dissapointing it is...when you as a boyfriend mean less than a night out dissapointing it is when my so called girlfriend can't just give up on something as silly and meaningless as clubbing for me...when she expects me to give up other things for her...

Talk to me after you've come back...dear...if you're not welcome back.

I dumped her.

Froggie is now single n looking out for a new mate


nineteenseventyfive said...

We all have expectation even when we say we don't. Be it with friends, family or love ones. We always say to give love and not expect anything in return...What a load of Crap. We do expect something in return.

We seem to live in a world where the rules applies to everyone except ourselves. An example would be when you see people double park and it causes a jam and u start swearing and cursing and say tht those who double park should be fine and dealt with only to find yourself double parking when it suited your needs / wants.

In your case, I think that you should at least talk to her and tell her that since she is willing to bend the rules, maybe its time that she re-evaluate the rules with you as well.

As much as I hate to say this, a relationship is either alot of giving and a little bit of taking or abit of giving and alot of taking. There really isnt such a thing as equal give and take. It really depends on the individual egos.

Anyway, thats just my two cents worth dude..but what ever it is, you do know you have someone here always willing to listen to you even if it means listening to you while tracking the jungle.

Boink Boink

Anonymous said...

Hope you're okay.. Hang in there..

Linus Linnaeus said...

not to air dirty laundry in public but my blog is a documentation of my life....

[9:13:20 AM] froggiepixie says: did you put down?
[9:13:32 AM] froggiepixie says: n not want to pick up?
[9:13:36 AM] froggiepixie says: well
[9:13:37 AM] chiazhiling says: yes i did.. i'm going to shower...
[9:13:41 AM] froggiepixie says: okay
[9:13:47 AM] chiazhiling says: i love u... but u;re making me sad...
[9:13:49 AM] froggiepixie says: goodbye then
[9:13:51 AM] chiazhiling says: i love u
[9:13:56 AM] froggiepixie says: it's been very nice
[9:13:57 AM] chiazhiling says: have a good day dear...
[9:14:09 AM] froggiepixie says: i mean goodbye
[9:14:12 AM] froggiepixie says: goodbey
[9:14:16 AM] froggiepixie says: goodbye
[9:14:23 AM] chiazhiling says: what are u saying?!
[9:14:53 AM] froggiepixie says: i m breaking up because obviously you are making rules for me n yet not tking any of my rules
[9:15:02 AM] chiazhiling says: HELLO?!
[9:15:13 AM] chiazhiling says: didn't i asked u how u FEEL about things>
[9:15:14 AM] chiazhiling says: >
[9:15:37 AM] chiazhiling says: I'm open and hear what u have to say... if u're not please... tell me how to please you
[9:15:56 AM] froggiepixie says: don't's simple...u made me very unhappy....n i am going to find my happiness so I guess we are over
[9:16:09 AM] chiazhiling says: DEAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[9:16:15 AM] froggiepixie says: you've hurt me
[9:16:26 AM] chiazhiling says: dont u think u've hurt me too?
[9:16:26 AM] froggiepixie says: bye
[9:16:43 AM] froggiepixie says: if i hurt you...that's why i am setting you free
[9:16:57 AM] froggiepixie says: if i hurt you i apologise truly
[9:17:00 AM] chiazhiling says: it's NOT about setting me free dear
[9:17:17 AM] froggiepixie says: stop calling me just lost your dear
[9:17:26 AM] froggiepixie says: now tell me...issit worth it?
[9:17:39 AM] chiazhiling says: worth WHAT/.!?
[9:17:49 AM] froggiepixie says: clubbing n no more us
[9:17:51 AM] chiazhiling says: i dont even get what u're trying to say
[9:17:54 AM] froggiepixie says: for real
[9:18:10 AM] froggiepixie says: i'll pay you back whatever you spent on our trip
[9:18:19 AM] froggiepixie says: since there is no more us
[9:18:26 AM] froggiepixie says: i guess i am no longer going
[9:19:00 AM] froggiepixie says: or i'll go but no see you
[9:19:12 AM] chiazhiling says: no. it's ok... dear... i love you... i want this relationship. but if u choose to let it go because u're not talking properly with me
[9:19:30 AM] chiazhiling says: i guess i dont have a choice right?
[9:19:35 AM] chiazhiling says: coz u want to dump me...
[9:19:36 AM] froggiepixie says: u always make your own rules
[9:19:44 AM] froggiepixie says: yes i do...
[9:20:08 AM] froggiepixie says: n my rules don't matter n if they do i m being controlling
[9:20:09 AM] chiazhiling says: i dont... that's why i want to TALK about it with you
[9:20:28 AM] froggiepixie says: doesn't matter
[9:20:43 AM] chiazhiling says: dear.... odviously u're not in a amiciable mood right now
[9:20:44 AM] froggiepixie says: no talk've made up your mind....
[9:20:53 AM] froggiepixie says: obviously
[9:21:04 AM] froggiepixie says: (u)
[9:21:10 AM] chiazhiling says: i have not make up anything
[9:21:17 AM] chiazhiling says: u're just assuming !i love u
[9:22:53 AM] chiazhiling says: i do
[9:23:25 AM] chiazhiling says: and honestly, i think u're being really really hard to talk to right now... i hope we can talk about it later

Anonymous said...

time has proven that she is still, and always a fake pathetic hypocriticalsluty bitch



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